• PhilipTheBucketA
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        3 days ago

        Have you guys ever spent time with a real person in real life interactions lmao

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            1 day ago

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            Borderline rape? Really?

            People say shit like this and I wonder how much meat space experience they have with… really, anything.

            Anyone else read “The Anxious Generation” yet?

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              Borderline rape? Really?

              if you logically extend it into the future, where this would be an actual thing that actually happened, yes at some point it would become rape, it’s just not really a thing you should argue.

              People say shit like this and I wonder how much meat space experience they have with… really, anything.

              it doesn’t really matter, if you’re saying that you could have sex with anybody specifically one person, and that person doesn’t consent (which is a very real possibility) then at that point you would necessitate violating consent.

              It’s just not a healthy way to think about sex.

              Anyone else read “The Anxious Generation” yet?

              unfortunately not, i’m busy watching the downfall of the US society atm, so.

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          3 days ago

          You guys are SO FRICKIN’ WEIRD.

          I am extremely weird, man, I’m not trying to judge someone in any sense for being weird or asocial or whatever. But what sort of porn logic is this where someone’s opposite-sex friend is lightly flirting with him and the widely upvoted reactions range from “SHE’S AN EMOTIONAL TRAINWRECK RUN AWAY SHE DESERVES TO SUFFER” all the way to “FUCK HER, FUCK HER BRAINS OUT, SHE WANTS IT!”

          It’s not even clear that she likes him for real. Sometimes friends interact with each other. Jesus Christ man. This is a fairly normal type of human interaction, not anything advanced or sophisticated, and the majority Lemmy opinion is apparently just a big sperglord house of horrors.

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            3 days ago

            Back in the good ol’ days we understood that the internet is all lies and only exists for porn.

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            2 days ago

            This is not a normal kind of human interaction, on the girl’s part.

            It very strongly indicates she is a spoiled brat, a narcissist.

            If you think this kind of interaction is normal… well I see two possible explanations:

            You are also a narcissist and that’s why you think this is normal.

            OR

            You are surrounded by narcissists who have gaslit you into thinking this is normal, and you haven’t had too many regular interactions with non narcissists.

            Also, I don’t see anywhere near as many total upvotes for ‘she’s into you dude, frost that cupcake!’ as I do for ‘this is the biggest red flag imaginable, let me write a short essay explaining why’

            In fact, yeah, I don’t see a single comment advocating the anon dive into her… affairs, over this.

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            2 days ago

            there’s no context, that’s the problem. Depending on their friendship this could be very normal, or it could be very weird, without any context this is batshit insane.

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        3 days ago

        I mean you can flirt back with her, maybe in friendly fashion or maybe for real. Maybe you want to get together with her and maybe you don’t. Honestly maybe she doesn’t really have any intent, and is just messing around with her friend. But being cold and insulting when she’s trying to flirt, and then getting confused when she gets really mad, is some typical 4chan shit.