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    ickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world · 2 months ago

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    ickplant@lemmy.world to Lemmy Be Wholesome@lemmy.world · 2 months ago
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      My ex looked a lot like her mom. Which was awesome when I was younger, because my ex didn’t smoke, and it was pretty awesome to think she would be hot forever.

      Well turns out that is true, but being hot is a terrible thing to base the quality of a relationship on.

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        almost did this myself. dad sat me down and said, “Son, she’s not right for you. go find yourself a nice cripple girl. she’ll never walk all over you.”

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          This wheelchair’s made for ridin’
          And that’s just what it’ll do
          One of these days the wheelchair’s
          gonna ride all over you

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            As a part time wheelchair user, thanks for this idea for a song

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          Man, your dad gave better advice than everyone I knew.

          Everyone was like "no, peoplebeproblems, if you marry her, you marry all the crazy, what does your gut say?"and I was all like “I have IBS! It’s unreliable!”

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          😂🤣 I hear Hell is nice this time of year.

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        But its true she was hot forever?

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          Maybe not forever, but she still is.

        • Valmond@lemmy.world
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          Crematorium: yes

        • Nfamwap@lemmy.world
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          Pics or it didn’t happen

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            Ew

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        My dad gave me the advice that your wife will likely look like her mother. My ex now, at 30 years looked exactly like her mom and I’m glad for reason 1001 to be divorced from her. No1 was: she’s a nasty, self centered twat who did nothing for us unless it benefited herself.

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        Sorry to hear that man, hope things get better for you.

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        a lot of hot people smoke… it’s a terrible habit but it doesn’t make you ugly

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          it’s a terrible habit but it doesn’t make you ugly

          No, but it ages you quickly.

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            Yeah but if you are looking chances are you can make anyone quit if both got something going. Not something to avoid, my take

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            deleted by creator

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            no it doesn’t

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              …yes it does. This is not up for debate. Nicotine results in the breakdown of collagen in the skin, rapidly resulting in aged appearance.

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                k thanks bye

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                  np, cya!

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                what really is the point of saying the same thing a dozen people already said in the same thread.
                “yes it is” “no it isn’t” “yes it is” “no it isn’t”….
                absolutely pointless.
                and nicotine does not break down the collagen in your skin… that’s just one of the five polysyllabic words you know…

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                  Aren’t you the one that started that stupid chain? At least I gave you something you can type into google. Top result if you did - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3509054/

                  Please don’t insult my knowledge or intelligence if you can’t even take 5 seconds to educate yourself.

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                    i’m not insulting your intelligence or knowledge… your tactics however…

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                      Troll someone else.

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          I find anyone who smokes instantly ugly, zero chance I would want to be with them sexually after that point, so yes it does. Also ages you like all hell

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            might make them subjectively ugly, but that’s just your association with it… and no it doesn’t

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              Also, sorry to spam, but it really does age you faster then not smoking in every front, and I think this is some good starter reading for anyone who smokes, always better to know what you are ingesting IMHO

              https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1117323/

              https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2598467/

              https://repository.ubn.ru.nl/bitstream/handle/2066/105399/112462.pdf?sequence=1

              https://pdskin.com/blogs/the-smoking-effect-how-cigarettes-make-you-age-faster/

              https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17951030/

              https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2564903/

              https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4771605/

              https://ash.org.uk/resources/view/how-smoking-affects-the-way-you-look

              https://www.quitcentre.org.au/news/research-finds-every-cigarette-shortens-life-expectancy-by-about-20-minutes

              https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7230126/

              https://aescend.com.au/smoking-and-ageing/

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                starter reading?

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                  Yes? The tldr if you don’t want to read, smoking ages you much more rapidly than if you don’t smoke.

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                    ok

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              You do realise attractive/ugly is completely subjective and down to each individual’s taste yeah? Like that’s how it works.

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                Most people talk about outward beauty. That is were this discussion is based on. Not really an argumentargument. Does chewing gum make anyone ugly? You can argue ugly based on the inside and/or outside. Take a gorgeous person, you’d be over your head about. It turns out they smoke, and suddenly they’re ugly? I don’t get it

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                  Yeah, could give me, whoever is considered the most attractive human alive ATM, they smoke, and yeah that is not an attractive human any longer for me.

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                oh, you’re so silly…
                imagine you look at person A and find them to appear attractive, that will not change because they smoke unless you know they smoke… that’s what i’m talking about.
                pretending like we’re talking about something else doesn’t make you clever.

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