fair point, and I totally agree. calling people names they do not consent is crossing the line.
in the medical side of reality, the target of this is never the person but the situation or the problem in question.
for the other side, the target is never clear and would mostly cause confusion.
everybody knows the bestest people tell him his strongman smells like, very strong… man
the not-so-bestest people, they just can’t take it.