I think you are hand-picking numbers here. The most current CDC Report on Intimate Partner Violence does not support your claims. https://www.cdc.gov/nisvs/documentation/NISVSReportonIPV_2022.pdf

I can recommend the movie “the man from earth” on the topic. I think he switches identities every 20 years or so…

Fun fact: in Germany, anything “unexpected” they write in TOS is not legally binding, because everyone knows noone reads it.