Orientation: Aromantic Asexual (AroAce)
Identity + Gender Modality: Agender + Isogender (Please note I don’t identify as cis or Trans)
Pronouns: Use any, Idc, *mostly doesn’t really matter to me (just not it/its).
That’s your opinion, but many people do not agree with you. I myself would be pissed if you shared our DM convo without asking me first, or even letting me know you were going to. I can see why Ada would and why she did what she did, it’s disrespectful and adversarial.
It ultimately isn’t surprising. Drag has been very sus from the beginning, drag exhibited a lot of behaviors that made me leery. Though at the time I didn’t say anything since it was only a hunch and most people were just voicing transphobic complaints about pronouns.
Already said it in !main@lemmy.blahaj.zone but I’ll say it again so others can see it here.
It seems drag was banned from the site for sharing people’s DMs, though I’m sure that’s not the whole story, drag has a history of being banned for way more than just the thing on the label. Looking at the comments on drag’s home instance where it hasn’t been removed, it seems drag was sharing those DMs in attempt to libel Ada for not taking the action drag wanted. That’s on top of the fact that she did not give drag permission to share them. It’s an asshole move for sure, and I have to say if I were in Ada’s shoes I’d do the same.
This person did seem to claim that Blahaj did it in another comment, here:
There was huge controversy where these policies led to sub mods protecting minor attracted persons who came in to disrupt their spaces
Ah yes, continuing the lie that blahaj.zone at somehow supports or encourages pedophilia.
*I’m trans btw
This doesn’t preclude a person from being transphobic, and it certainly doesn’t justify the lying and fabrication and accusations towards blahaj.zone admins of harboring pedophiles, because they chose to stand up against misgendering and ban people who misgender others or spew apologia.
I’m blocking you now because you feel like you have to win something and this isn’t productive.
Bye don’t let the door hit you on the way out, troll.
I’m not the one who’s accusing an instance admin of allowing or condoning pedophillia because they’re salty they have to respect neopronoun users.
Ah so you are complaining about a rule that’s meant to protect trans people. Let us be clear honey, Neopronoun users are trans, and discrimination towards them is transphobic.
Sorry you don’t agree with me that trolls equating gender identity to beastiality and pedophilia shouldn’t be respected or legitimized. But I don’t want to spend time in a space where I have to respect them by law.
Lemmy.blahaj.zone does not allow or condone bestiality or pedophilia, and it never has. This is an outright lie and it goes to show that you are absolutely without a doubt acting in bad faith right now.
Sorry you think this is a funny gotcha
You just openly admitted that your reasons were transphobic and made a disgusting false accusation towards @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone of condoning or allowing bestiality and pedophilia on this instance. You literally just discredited yourself and your own argument 🤣
Which rule changes, you have to be specific. If it was people pushing back against tighter rules against bigotry that falls under the umbrella of apologia.
Power tripping and then pretending like they’re all just bigots is cringe admin behavior, it’s immature, and it’s part of why people don’t want to be on blahaj
Highlight an actual instance of power-tripping then we’ll talk. I’ve seen far too many people quick to whine and complain when they were banned for straight up transphobia, thinly veiled transphobia, or apologia.
Blahaj is not a safe space for anyone, at least not more than anywhere else.
The thriving trans and LGBTQ communities disagree with you, but sure keep believing that
The people who have been getting banned by @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone are instance banned for transphobia or apologia. This is something you shouldn’t leave out or ignore. When a person is banned from an instance they are automatically banned from any communities they have participated in there.
She’s not power-tripping by banning them from the instance, most people banned from blahaj.zone deserve it, and aren’t safe around queer people. Something that is kind of a requirement to participate in communities that are meant to be queer safe spaces.
It does if you’re a member of that instance. The instance the person is banned from will bounce all federation requests from the banned person.
She did this to me too because I was questioning their motives for moving and avoiding lemmy.blahaj.zone “censorship”, though she only did a temp ban. I guess I got lucky, but good to know that the others there are more level headed. So I would definitely say this seems like power-tripping, PTB? That’s how you say it right (I’m new to this community).
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Just for clarification I’m Agender, I’ve said it before, I only say I’m a femboy and not a femby because femby is way too often perceived as transfem which I am not. I’m also not a cis person I’m Isogender. It literally says it in my profile. Please don’t spread lies about me because you’re upset about a temporary ban or that I locked an extremely controversial thread due to Egg Prime Directive violations.
Just so we’re clear on this, I’m not the only one who thinks this. Ada is very much on board with enforcing the Egg Prime Directive and you should be lucky you only got a temp ban, especially after the shit you posted in this thread.
Probably assholes who just hate femboys.
Either you have issues with reading comprehension or you are an alt of drag. When people say someone is being sus or has been sus they generally mean they as a person are behaving in ways that make others suspicious.