Edit: “getting closer to marriage” is about the whole journey starting from being completely single
Edit: if this shower thought is too confusing to be useful to you, then here is a quote that gives some of the same guidance, is simpler, less philosophical, but less broad: “Don’t waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come” - Mario Quintana
In order to comment on this I ask that you please give me a clear and concise definition of what “your full earthly potential” is supposed to mean because I have no idea what you’re talking about
Love, courage, having a personality, etc.