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    The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to Microblog Memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 21 days ago

    A tax on people-pleasing

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    The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to Microblog Memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 21 days ago
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    • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
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      I am talking about the customer here why are they so willing to accept tip sharing as in response to comment above

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        Peer pressure. It feels to most people that choosing not to tip is itself an action, and they are worried other people will judge them for it. Same reason people return carts at the grocery store, for the most part.

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          So servers and customers both just go along with it because

          https://www.mediamatters.org/fox-news/fox-news-guest-says-poor-people-are-dogs-need-be-starved-be-kept-obedient

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            No, servers go along with it because they have no choice. Customers go along with it because of social pressure, and to some extent fear of retribution.

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